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Positive by example

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jimmysdevoted
Joined Jan 1, 2008

When I was openly diagnosed in 2000 as diabetic, I had a long understanding of diabetes. Everyone on my father's side of the family was diabetic. I was 16th generation confirmed.

Anyway I had this great DE. She came in and said you have to consider it's like your eye color and hair color. It's a part of you. But you can let it control you or you can control it. You need glasses right, you need insulin.

Well that was it for me. I accepted it and went about my daily routine. Ok so I had a few things to do during the day that I didn't have before. but it wasn't all that awful. I had to watch my diet.. been doing that all of my life. I had to exercise.. humnn been doing that all my life.

So here I am 9 happy years later and I am a DE. I think what I have that most DEs today don't have is  practical first-hand knowledge of the problem. And if you lead by example people generally will get the idea that if you can do it I can do it.

It's never easy especially when you have people come in with diabetic depression and you're bubbly. It's their faces of astonishment when you test in front of them and take a shot that makes them adjust easier.

That's a trick I learned. I can belepture all day long, but until my meter alarm goes off and I test infront of everyone to show its no big deal and then if I need a shot give myself one they take on a  different view of their diabetes.

Lead by example and the rest will follow.

julie

Posted on September 7, 2008 9:15
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I am a 28 year old female in England who has had Type 1 Diabeties for 25 years . I have struggled all my life to control my Diabeties and because I was struggling I became embarrassed by it. I was embarrased that I was different, that I could not control it (despite proffessional help) overall I felt Diabties pushed people away! I have been in Intensive Care in hospital twice and in general wards several times when I would stop responding to the insulin injections. Needless to say it has been an uphill struggle. And it has not always just been my struggle to control it that has caused problems... I have only recently (March this year!) changed jobs after putting up with bullying and harrassment by colleagues who did not understand and would jump to a conclusion soon after I began to teething problems after starting to use an insulin pump. After one month off of work after being booked off by my Diabeties Specialist for numerous irregular hypos and then by my GP for severe anxiety and depression. During my time off I really looked at my situation; my Diabeties and it's control/my job/my health/how I saw myself in general and realised that I needed to change it... Not just change job but also the way I feel about myself and my Diabeties control - I needed to reassess everything. It hasn't happened overnight, but little things have changed and that has created a dominoe effect on the rest of my life. One of the littlest things was to stop thinking about what other people where thinking about my Diabeties. This probably sounds like a big thing but it was achieved in little ways like not leaving the room to go and make a blood test, asking for help when struggling through a bad hypo and other small things. Now, seven months on I will do a blood test in front of someone I don't know on a train or in front of friends/family and colleages without batting an eye lid. I do stop and wonder sometimes what they are thinking but it is part of me... IT IS NORMAL FOR ME! It is not up to others what you think about your Diabeties it is up to you and only you. You are the one person in your life who can control and change your emotions/life and Diabeties and you should choose to do it...
Posted on September 17, 2008 5:49
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